7 signs of a healthy worship team for the tone-deaf ministry leader (and everyone else too)

So you’re a leader and you know musical worship is important. But you aren’t sure how to coach your worship team towards greatness. Where do you even start? Is it all about preference, what’s cool, or top 40 worship songs? Maybe you should just leave the worship stuff to the musicians. How can you speak into your musical worship so it becomes a vital part of pushing your ministry or movement forward? Here are seven signs of a healthy worship team that even a tone deaf leader can evaluate.   


Engagement – How far back from the first few rows do you see the crowd engaging in worship? How loud is the volume of the congregation/crowd singing? If the people are “worship zombies” just standing there, watching with their mouths ajar instead of singing, then something is off. It could be that they need to be given permission and encouraged to engage in worship. It could be that the songs are unfamiliar or in a key too high for untrained people to sing. Maybe the vocals are sung too ornamentally and are hard to follow or everyone on stage has their head in their charts instead of demonstrating what it means to engage. Or maybe you are trying to take them to a deeper level of worship before they have had the chance to get their hearts ready. There are lots of things it could be, but the level of engagement is an easy indicator to evaluate.


Unity – Is the team resolving conflict in a healthy way and moving towards each other in love, or are there a lot of hurt feelings and bad attitudes festering? Jesus commands us to leave our sacrifice at the altar if we know our brother has something against us. Go and be reconciled first, He says, before we continue our worship. It is that important to Him. The apostle John says we cannot really love God whom we have not seen if we don’t love our brother whom we have seen. Let’s not kid ourselves. We can’t pretend to be in love with God when we allow conflict and division to be the norm. A passion for loving others is the fruit of anyone who is truly meeting with Jesus in worship.


Quality People – Are you able to attract and keep quality people? When things are done responsibly and with excellence and care, it attracts people who value those things. It doesn’t take long for a punctual person to throw up their hands and walk away if everyone is constantly late to rehearsal. In the same way, people who have invested a lot of time and effort to develop their talent tend to want to use them in a place where excellence is valued.


Lack of Distractions – Do you have a culture that works hard to prevent mistakes that would distract people from meeting with Jesus? A commitment to excellence is not an obsession with perfection. It means that you work hard to remove distractions by checking (and sometimes double checking) your work, running through problem areas like transitions between songs to make sure they will go smoothly, and creating a culture where people are used to receiving feedback that will make what they do better. Of course, there will be mistakes and we should cultivate an environment of grace as well as excellence. But the bottom line question is, “Did you do all you knew to do to prevent a mistake from happening?” If yes, then it just happened. No big deal. Let’s learn and move on.


The Gospel on Display – If you think about the content of the songs you sing, the words you say, and the moments you create during worship, are you telling the whole story of the gospel? If your worship leaders have been personally gripped by the Gospel, many times it will naturally come through in their worship choices as well as in their private lives. But more often than not, unless we are intentional, our worship gravitates towards songs we like and only the aspects of the gospel that most resonate with us at any given time. But celebrating God’s majesty and holiness, crying out because of our sin and need for forgiveness and grace, marveling at God’s provision of Jesus Christ on the cross as the only way to the Father, and declaring our commitment to follow Him and surrender our lives to Him, are all aspects of this amazing story we call the Gospel. Over time, all of these aspects should be seen through our public worship. Not only that, the effects of the Gospel should be on display off the stage in the lives of the people leading in worship.


Prayer – Does your team make prayer a priority before, during, and after leading worship? Worship is a spiritual activity that is spiritually accomplished. Without God’s spirit we are just making noise. Prayer characterizes people who understand that Christ is the only mediator between us and the Father and that the Spirit must be at work to translate our praises to the Father and open our minds and hearts to receive His light and life. On the flip side, if we think it’s all on us to make worship great or “lead people to the throne,” we are in trouble. It can lead to crippling anxiety if we think it is all on our shoulders or careless overconfidence if we think we’re so awesome that all we have to do is show up and play for the Spirit to move.


Sustainability  – Is musical worship a vital and strategic part of your overall ministry or is it an add on or afterthought? Putting together quality musical worship can be a lot of hard work, even for the most talented people. It’s wise to recognize the contributions of the people who are working on worship by taking steps to give them the time, resources, and support they need. It is easy, when someone is capable and spiritually mature, to want them to lead in lots of areas. Resist this! If you want healthy worship, it takes time and effort. Give your worship team people permission to say no to serving in other ways, so they won’t burn out and so they can do a great job. And just like any other part of your ministry, you should have a plan for multiplication. Be intentional about gathering and training up more worship leaders. Your current worship leaders will need to or want to step down someday. Maybe they will need a break or it will become clear that it’s better for them to serve the ministry in a different way. (Having worship leaders change roles to lead in different parts of the ministry will be more natural if they already see themselves as part of the strategic whole.) Either way, the only way to combat inevitable change is with intentional change. Have a plan for multiplying your worship leaders!

Help! I don’t like reading the bible

My 6 year old daughter and 4 year old son aren’t used to sitting through a Sunday service and the results were a bit disastrous this past Good Friday at my church. While I was up front extolling the work of Christ on the cross through song, they were squirming in agony in their seats saying loudly, “I’m bored.” “All this music makes my stomach hurt.” “I have a headache.”

To be honest, sometimes I feel this way when I read the bible. I know God’s word will make me a better worship leader and child of God. But I often find myself merely reading words on a page. I’m supposed to read this but it just not doing anything for me. The conclusion I’ve come to is this: It’s not the bible’s fault. My children were bored because they didn’t get what we were celebrating. The more they understand the sacrifice of Christ, his love, his suffering, the more they can get inside the story, the more impactful a Good Friday service will become.

One of the tools I’ve used the last few years to overcome staleness when reading God’s word is biblehub.com. They have a website and a great app for iphone and android I can pull up anywhere. When I read a passage and I feel like here may be some deeper meaning I am not getting I can easily look up the greek or hebrew and draw insights from the meaning of the original language that makes the scripture fresh and exciting for me.

This is what happened when I used biblehub.com with the first few verses of psalm 67, a passage I’ve heard or read these words so many times it lost meaning for me. Here is the ESV.

1 May God be gracious to us and bless us
and make his face to shine upon us, Selah
2 that your way may be known on earth,
your saving power among all nations.
3 Let the peoples praise you, O God;
let all the peoples praise you!
4 Let the nations be glad and sing for joy,
for you judge the peoples with equity
and guide the nations upon earth. Selah
5 Let the peoples praise you, O God;
let all the peoples praise you!

I went to biblehub and this was the personal translation I wrote down from the original hebrew as part of my devotional.

Divine One, yearn for us, favor us.
Speak into us words of love
Brighten us up with your face
We want your attention, your full attention

Come experience Him, everyone on earth
The way He moves, sure and strong and beautiful.
He dances among you now, among every type of person
His help, his deliverance, His victory, His Jesus (yes, the root hebrew word was Yeshua)

We want a confession from every man woman and child
Confess, the Divine One, He deserves it all!

I finished this creative and mental study with worshipping God. I marveled about his compassion and desire for every type of person to know Him. I thought it was so cool the image of his movements among the people, as well as the fact that the word for Salvation is Yeshua where Jesus gets his name. And I told Him what I thought about Him.

I left that time jazzed about God and his word. The images and words stayed with me for days. Bottom line, God and His word are amazing. It is worth our time to dig in because His word is alive and active and sharper than any two edged sword (Heb 4:12). When we do dig in, it is really ourselves that come alive!


I never understood people who got all excited about nature. They would say, “I hiked up a mountain and just really felt close to God.” or “I saw the sun set over the ocean and it was like God just…bla, bla, bla.” Hiking just made me sweaty and tired. I was more excited to hang with friends and swim than to watch the sun set. And spring just meant rain, mud, and having to mow the grass. I felt like I was on the outside looking in…at the outdoors.

Then I had a revolution in my heart. God, the Father, started to take shape in my heart as just that…a Father. I have always seen him as a distant judge who wanted to punish me for my sin until Jesus stepped between us. To be honest, I thought He was holding out on me and only giving me what He was obligated to give, because of Jesus, and nothing more.

This was an imbalance of a good idea, namely substitutionary atonement (Jesus died as a substitute for my sin to satisfy God’s wrath), that created a 2 dimensional of a much more complex God. It didn’t take into account His compassion and love, not to mention the fact that Jesus was the “radiance of the Glory of the Father and His exact representation” Hebrews 1:3.

It was ground breaking for me…Jesus and the Father were in it together! Sending Jesus to die was a huge sacrifice for the Father. What good parent wouldn’t rather die than let their child die. So this was a loving plan concocted among the Godhead at great cost to them all.

A funny thing happened as I began to see the Father’s heart and His goodness. Nature came alive. It was like I had a personal spring in my soul. Why are their so many leaves? Do we need them all? Why are there flowers of so many different colors and types? In the abundance of nature, suddenly I saw the Father’s generosity that overflows towards us. In the majesty of nature I saw His immense power. In the complexity and interconnectedness of it all, His wisdom.

So as nature starts to come alive this spring consider meditating on God’s overflowing goodness. Psalm 65 is a good place to start. Here is an excerpt.

9 You visit the earth and water it;
you greatly enrich it;
the river of God is full of water;
you provide their grain,
for so you have prepared it.
10 You water its furrows abundantly,
settling its ridges,
softening it with showers,
and blessing its growth.
11 You crown the year with your bounty;
your wagon tracks overflow with abundance.
12 The pastures of the wilderness overflow,
the hills gird themselves with joy,
13 the meadows clothe themselves with flocks,
the valleys deck themselves with grain,
they shout and sing together for joy.

I Don’t Want Your Glory

In the Gospel of John Chapter 5 verse 30 to the end, Jesus is running down a list of witnesses that testify that he is the Christ. Deuteronomy 19:15 says that no one can be convicted on the testimony of one witness, there needed to be 2 or 3 witnesses to establish the truth of something. In this passage Jesus says that he bears witness to himself but that is not enough. He goes on to list John the Baptist, Jesus’ own supernatural works, God himself, and even the writings of Moses. But right in the middle he says something really arresting. There one group that doesn’t get to testify…the voice of man. John 5:41 says “I do not receive glory from people.” in verse 44 Jesus goes on to explain, “How can you believe, when you receive glory from one another and do not seek the glory that comes from the only God?”

As a worship leader and performer the issue of seeking the glory that comes from man is something that I have dealt with for a long time. It is dangerously exhilarating to seek after the praise of men and feel like you are attaining it. It is debilitating to seek after it and receive criticism instead. But look at Jesus, when it comes to the “glory from people” he doesn’t accept it. Court is not in session. The verdict about who he is and what he is worth has already been passed and it comes straight from the mouth of God. “This is my beloved son.” period.

What kind of people could we become if we internalized this way of thinking and memorized John 5:41 “I do not receive glory from people.” What kind of freedom would we have in life and ministry if we knew to our core that God has spoken over us and his verdict in Christ is, “you are my beloved child and in you I am well pleased.” That is a glory that will fill us up and that will free us to receive criticism and praise without batting an eye. Because people’s criticism and praise are just something they are saying and it not a validation of who you are.

The more I become uninterested in obtaining glory from my mere human counterparts and become focused on receiving it from my heavenly father the more I love being me and the more freedom I feel to lead worship without an agenda to gain praise for anyone but Christ.

Ah…What A Dress!!!

It’s Valentine’s Day Eve and I actually made plans this year!  YEAH! Ahead of time….double yeah!!! Anyway, my wife Laura was talking about our dinner plans and asked the question that crosses many minds before a date. “What am I going to wear?” Even though we live in a country with full closets the statement, “I have nothing to wear,” is going to be echoing from the hilltops tonight and tomorrow as women and men get ready to spend time with their loved one in fancier-than-normal conditions. I heard a joke that said when women say this it translates, “I have nothing appropriate or new to wear” but when men say this it means, “I have nothing clean to wear.” Whatever the reasons I think this question goes deeper than mere appearance.

We want to be loved, to be found wholly acceptable. We want someone to look at us and say… “I love you completely. I want you completely. I see no fault in you.” Nothing captures that better than a wedding. When, after months of waiting, with a desire to commit to each other for life, after an entire morning of primping and preparing, preceded by bride’s maids and flower girls, the bride enters into the room and begins to walk down the aisle. The groom sees her…beautiful, radiant, spotless, dressed in white. And we wish we could bottle that and keep it forever. But sadly, so many times it fails. Love, as we perceiveit, is failing all around us.

But it will not always fail. I was reading in the Bible this morning and came across Rev 19:6-8. “‘Hallelujah! For the Lord our God the Almighty reigns. Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; it was granted her to clothe herself with fine linen, bright and pure’ – for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints.” The picture of a wedding is the picture God gives us of what we have waiting for us. Our groom has “granted” to us his own righteousness for our righteousness. He has clothed us with his perfection and, as we live in light of that, we are made beautiful and are in fact beautiful. And I found myself grateful that my God sees me the way my heart longs to be seen. And I found myself with a renewed desire to “love my wife like Christ loved the church” so that no matter what she wears tomorrow she will see, reflected in me, the kind of love she is meant for…a righteousness given not earned, lived out of not worked into. Ah…what a dress!!!

So Much More…idea behind the song

The story of the prodigal son is a beautiful parable Jesus tells
to a group of religious teachers and an on-looking crowd. It is found in Luke
. Basically, a son asks his father for his share of the inheritance
which the father gives him. He leaves his father and older brother at home and
runs off. He spends all his wealth in wild living and then becomes so poor that
he is forced to care for pigs and eat the food he is giving them in order to
survive. He comes to his senses and returns home hoping, at most, that his
father will allow him to work for him as a slave. Instead, he finds his father
running out to him, hugging him, and crying over him. His father forgives him, wishes him good
luck, and then sends him on this way to make it on his own penniless but

THAT IS NOT WHAT HAPPENED!!! But how often do we act like that is
our reality as Christians. The whole focus of our Christian life becomes not
sinning and then repenting from sin when we do mess up. We are constantly
crawling back to God hoping that he will accept us, at most, as a slave. But I
believe that God has more for us than that. His plans for us are so generous
that they blow our minds. He wants sons and daughters not slaves. The real end
of the story goes like this. After running out to is son with hugs and tears
the father not only forgives him but he reinstates him as a son, gives him the
signet ring of authority, gives him sandals and a robe, kills the fattened calf
and throws him a party.

His older brother hears about this and gets angry. He refuses to
join the party. His father comes out to him and asks him to come in. But he
refuses saying, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never
disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could
celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your
property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’ The
father replies, “‘My son, you are always with me, and everything I have is
yours. But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was
dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”

The older brother refuses to go in to the party because he sees
himself as “slaving” for the father but not being rewarded. He resents sharing
his inheritance with the rebellious younger brother. The younger brother could
have stayed away because of guilt, thinking he only deserved to be a slave.

In “So Much More” I try to walk through the story of
redemption pointing especially to the end God has in mind for us. Christ is our
true older brother. He is not upset with the father. Rather, he has joined the party
and is ready to share his inheritance with us. The question is, are we going to
join the party and experience the riches God has for us? Do we believe God says to us like the father in the story, “everything I have is yours?” Here are some scriptures that inspired the song.

Ephesians 2:4-7

4 But because of his great love for
us, God, who is rich in mercy, 5 made us alive with
Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been
saved. 6 And God raised us up with Christ and seated
us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, 7
in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his
grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus.

Rom 8:14-17

14 For those who are led by the Spirit
of God are the children of God. 15 The Spirit you
received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the
Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.” 16 The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we
are God’s children. 17 Now if we are children, then
we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his
sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.

Hebrews 2:11

Both the one who makes people holy and those who are made holy are
of the same family. So Jesus is not ashamed to call them brothers and sisters.

Kar_ma Crash

random pic of car crash from the internet.
Flying back from California this weekend, I ended up sitting beside a lady with lots of interesting thoughts and questions about religion in general and Christianity in particular. Why did Christ have to die for our sins anyway? Is the Bible reliable? Was Jesus married to Mary Magdalene and was there some huge Knight’s Templar cover up (a-la Dan Brown’s DaVinci Code)? She was also a great listener. Sharing with her about how I see God got me excited all over again about His great love for us. At one point she mentioned she believed that it all could be summed up with the idea of Karma… “What you do come’s back to you. You do good and good comes back to you.”

I’ve heard this before and as far as every other religion is concerned, even parts of what is called Christianity, I think this is an accurate description of how things are seen to work. But it hit me in a new way this time and made me think how absolutely, COMPLETELY different true Christianity is from Karma.

First of all, the whole point of the gospel of Jesus Christ is that we DON’T get what we deserve. We make mistakes and we sin against God but instead of punishing us for the bad we do God offers to forgive us, make us part of His family, and give us eternal life through his son. And none of this is because of anything we have done to deserve it, it is a free gift.

But what struck me on the plane and what we ended up talking about comes at it from another angle. What happens to people who are completely committed to God? What happened to Jesus, the only man to live an absolutely perfect life? If you look at the many people in the bible who trust God and follow him you don’t find Karma at work; you actually find the opposite. What’s going on here, why do the people who walk most closely with God seem to suffer so much?

In 1 Peter 2:19 Paul condones suffering, “For this is a gracious thing, when, mindful of God, one endures sorrows while suffering unjustly.”

In Colossians 1:24 he says about himself, “Now I rejoice in what was suffered for you, and I fill up in my flesh what is still lacking in regard to Christ’s afflictions, for the sake of his body, which is the church.”

What we have in Christianity that is so different is a God who loves us so deeply that He willing chose to suffer by giving up His Son to correct the wrongs in the world so that He could punish sin to the fullest extent and still have a relationship with us. We have Jesus who willing chose to suffer by leaving His eternal place beside His Father to becoming a human and suffer though a regular guy’s life. He submitted Himself to being misjudged, humiliated, and wronged by people (people that He created) to the point of death on a cross. And we have the Holy Spirit who willingly serves the Father and Son and comes to live in us when we ask Jesus to come into our lives.

So do you see it now…The people who walk most closely with God become more and more like Him. And the kind of God we have chooses to willing suffer to right the wrongs of this world. If you are looking for Karma in Christianity it is simply not there. If you are looking to do a few good things and then live a simple undisturbed life you won’t find that option in Christianity.

The heart of a Christian beats with the pulse of God’s heart to restore this world for His glory. The mature disciple of Christ begins to desire to join the team of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit in sacrificing and graciously putting our lives and comforts on the line for the sake of the Kingdom of God. After all that is what our Daddy-God has done for us.


We were trying to put this page together in a way that made sense and we realized there was no simple way to do it. There are so many things I am passionate about that even when I was trying to neatly package and box in myself I had a hard time doing it. It also seems that my life is at a crossroads yet again.

My wife Laura and have been performing as a couple for the last year. It has been fun and challenging traveling with our daughter Vivian, who was born Oct ’08, a month before we launched our band, but we managed to go on several tours, record a short CD, make some fun t-shirts, and have a blast. In April we are expecting our second child, a boy, and that will definitely limit what we will be able to do as a band.

Another thing I am passionate about is writing songs and helping others write songs. There is nothing like jamming with someone and pushing the creative process until you come up with a song you and others enjoy. The songs I like writing don’t have to be primarily about God, but in my opinion since He is the source of all life it all flows back and forth to Him and from Him and it is all connected.

I also love worshiping and helping others worship God. This past summer I had the awesome opportunity to lead my fellow staff in worship at our national staff conference in Colorado. After Christmas I was at the San Diego Christmas Conference with an amazing group of students leading worship. In a couple days Laura and I are headed to Spain to lead worship at another conference. It is so fun to work with people using our gifts to glorify God.

So, the long and short of it is that I am going to put my life and my interest on display for the glory of God. Keep checking in for stories, pointers on song writing, and worship resources.

for the display of His splendor